When I started my business, I was strongly cautioned to keep my personal and business lives separate. As a new parent, that made no sense to me. And, well, I simply bucked that notion – knowing that I would draw from the same resources to thrive in both spaces.

Fast forward 18 years and I often revisit this work/life balance debate, of which much has been penned. There is yet to appear a magic set of rules to follow to promote harmony on both sides of the fence and I continue to maintain that there’s no distinct line. Advances in technology support this position.

What does keeps me balanced is an understanding of and a commitment to my vision and values. While I still need to juggle, take some detours, and question things along the way, I am confident about the direction I am heading and will hop a fence when I need to.

Speaking of 18, it’s birthday time again in our house and I am reminded once again to celebrate with a big thank you to my son Charlie and to all of you who have contributed to our success. As the post was so popular last year, I wanted to direct you to my thoughts on the matter in August of 2009.

Cindy Wilson

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Event producers rely on a team to pull off an extraordinary meeting or event. At Wilsonwest, we hold members of this team in a very high place. Call them trusted partners, collaborators, friends –  but never vendors. Vendors sell you something. Trusted partners give and keep on giving – great inspiration, extraordinary service, value, respect, and much more. Working with these partners you are capable of delivering more than you or your customer imagined. All of this giving translates into an even greater experience for event participants.

This week, I’d like to give a shout out to one of those partners: Bill John and the Odyssey Team.

The Odyssey team is extraordinary and they have been working to create meaningful Corporate Socially Responsible (CSR) events long before the term was in vogue. When many of us hear the words team building, we cringe. Odyssey changed this for me. When you meet Bill, you understand why the firm is so successful.  He lives and breathes his mission. He listens. He gets it. And he is a true innovator.

Check out their work: innovative, dynamic, smart, and real.

Cindy Wilson

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I took a quick trip to New York City last week, and while dining in some great spots I was reminded of a favorite guru of mine in the hospitality industry: Danny Meyer. Danny is CEO of the Union Square Hospitality Group and owner of famed restaurants such as Union Square Café, Gramercy Tavern, Tabla, The Shake Shack, and many more.

I LOVE his approach to business which he calls enlightened hospitality and which serves as the foundation of his thriving restaurant empire. This business model, designed for long-term sustained profitability, embraces his key stakeholders in the following order: 1) employees  2) customers 3) community 4) suppliers, and 5) investors. Hmmm? Investors at the bottom of the list? Sound a bit backwards? Meyer argues that if you place the emphasis on the first four groups (in this order) you will find that it is their collective work and collaboration that fuels even greater and more enduring financial success which ultimately fuels the bottom line and makes for happy investors.

His businesses are known for outstanding employees, warm hospitality, strong ties with exceptional suppliers, and a solid commitment to playing an active role in the community. Investors are honored to be associated with businesses that generate not only profit, but good will and soul. There’s a lot to be learned from this business philosophy and I have enjoyed reading Meyer’s book Setting the Table, The Transforming Power of Hospitality in Business.

Meyer understands that serving food is secondary to the experiences he creates for his customers and to quote him, “Business, like life, is all about how you make people feel. It’s that simple, and it’s that’s hard.”

Cindy Wilson

PS – If you’re heading to NY  there’s a few new Shake Shacks popping up in the Theater District and the Upper East Side.

PS - I know it’s been around for a while, but my daughter and I loved, loved, loved Billy Elliott The Musical and I hear it’s coming to San Francisco in the Fall.

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I recently read Who’s got your Back? by Keith Ferrazi in which he extols the virtues and value of forming deep relationships with a core group of trusted advisors, peers and mentors. While I have always understood the power of what he calls “lifeline relationships” in my personal life, I did not translate this into business until we began producing executive (or C-level) events for our clients and I observed first-hand how top leaders seek out and value these peer groups as critical to their success.

Too often business leaders, especially entrepreneurs, feel compelled to go it alone, equating this Superman type of behavior with a true measure of strength. There is a fear that asking for help might impose upon others or, even worse, showcase a weakness. But the truth is these lifeline relationships power growth for individuals and organizations. They provide education, inspiration, loyalty, trust, and accountability. The ones who truly “have your back” are keeping you honest and holding you accountable.

Who are your lifeline relationships? Will they tell it “like it is” even if the telling gets tough? Are they holding you accountable? Do these relationships afford you a place to shed your Superman cape and show a little vulnerability?

If you have yet to identify your lifeline relationships or are simply still unsure about the concept, pick-up Keith’s book for a really simple guide to these powerful relationships.

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Zappos. Not only do they A) deliver shoes quickly, but they B) offer free shipping in addition to C) no-hassle returns.

By every indication, this company has a soul.

Here are 10 more reasons to love Zappos, which are also 10 really great reminders for all of us in the service business. While these are their company values, they are easily and powerfully adaptable to any project we embrace. Try them on for size:

Deliver WOW through service
Embrace and drive change
Create fun and a little weirdness
Be adventurous, creative and open-minded
Pursue growth and learning
Build open and honest relationships with communications
Build a positive team and family spirit
Do more with less
Be passionate and determined
Be humble

The CEO of Zappos, Tony Hsieh, also talks about the importance of hiring people who consider themselves lucky or optimistic as these folks tend to pay more attention to detail and are cognizant of their surroundings. I consider myself to be a lucky person. I won a giant Easter Rabbit when I was in the second grade. On my first trip to Las Vegas I tried roulette and hit it big with a $20 chip on #17. And if you’ve read a previous post, you know how I feel about #17. I have a lot more “lucky” stories (like how many times I lost my wallet only to have it returned with gifts and stories to share), but I’ll stop here and connect the notion of luck to the business values and the list. If you equate luck with paying closer attention to your customers and the details, I’ll place lucky high on the list. A little luck may open a door you otherwise might not have noticed.

Thank you Zappos for your innovative and thoughtful practices and for always delivering the goods.

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Look closely at the inside cover of Seth Godin’s new book Linchpin and you will find a picture of me and my colleague Nick Rossi. Imagine how excited we were to discover this when the book arrived! How did this happen? Well, unbeknownst to us, our colleague Mary Sullivan sent in our photos in response to the questions, “Who Matters to you? Who could you not live without?”

Take a moment now and think about the people who really matter to you – those people that you just can’t live without.

Call them. Write them a note. Send off an e-mail. Celebrate them! Do it often. It feels good to be on either side of this equation.

I will join Seth in the chorus by saying, celebrate the linchpins! We most certainly need more of them.

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“I arise in the morning torn between a desire to save the world and a desire to savor the world. This makes it hard to plan the day.”

- Elwyn Brooks “E. B.” White

E.B. White penned, among other books, Charlotte’s Web – one of my all time favorite children’s books. If I had the opportunity to sit down for coffee with E.B. White today, I might challenge him to think that there’s time and space in the day for both saving and savoring. Thankfully, that notion has begun to work its way into our manner of doing business. Call it conscious capitalism, corporate social responsibility, or what you will – it’s a movement toward thoughtful leadership with a strong sense of mission and purpose.

Eighteen years ago I founded Wilsonwest on the simple principle that a respect for the quality of life for my employees (and me) directly contributes to the high quality work we deliver for our customers. At the time, I remember being challenged as to why my clients and future clients would care if I valued and supported a high quality of life for my employees. I never wavered, and now I know first-hand the wisdom of this decision and am honored to have contributed to the enrichment of the lives of my employees. Collectively, we work to contribute to the growth and well being of our customers’ businesses and employees by building and nurturing the relationships that are core to their business success. It’s a good cycle and one that affords us the opportunity to both savor and save.

If the wise spider Charlotte were here, my guess is that she’d weave those words into her web.

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Bespoke is a term employed in a variety of situations to mean an item custom-made to the buyer’s specifications.

In this age of recession, cutbacks, and the absence (or rejection) of luxury, I challenge you to think of the term bespoke in a different way – as something essential and authentic, rather than frivolous. What could be better than having something created for you and with you, in a manner that is thoughtful, artful and genuine? And how would you relate to that experience, product, or purchase? I believe the result would be one that carries a deeper meaning, a higher degree of care, and an appreciation that is both long-lasting and powerful.

This week I had the privilege and great pleasure to visit the perfumer Yosh Han and experience the ultimate in tailor made: the creation of a bespoke fragrance. The session began in her stylish salon with a casual conversation, setting the stage for what was to follow. I sampled many exotic and some familiar scents – identifying those that thrilled and captivated from the ones that neither suited my mood nor taste. She then employed her perfumer’s chemistry to help guide me in refining my blend. Yosh likens the end result to a portrait in a bottle, capturing one’s authentic persona and style. The beautiful bottle of my signature fragrance is now nestled between others on my perfume tray and is clearly the star of the show. No other fragrance could possible carry the meaning this experience provided for me and each time I use the perfume, I know I will cherish the drops as much I cherished the time with Yosh.

Bespoke is at the heart of what we do here at Wilsonwest. Each event experience is handcrafted with our customers in mind: their brand, mission, vision, and values are at the core of our blending. We, too, begin the process with a conversation in which we do a lot of listening that helps us uncover what will help guide us to work together with you. Our goal in this process is to create a meaningful event experience that delivers on strategy, artful design, and intelligence.

Bespoke events and meetings are the only way you should be thinking when investing those precious event dollars. Call us and let’s get started.

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A few weeks ago, I participated in a webcast hosted by the Washington Speaker’s Bureau. It was a great opportunity to see a live presentation by one of their featured speakers, Tom Morris. Morris has become one of the most active public philosophers in the world due to his unusual ability to bring the greatest wisdom of the past to face the challenges of the present.

As a student of philosophy, I was quickly drawn to his words and suggestions. During the webcast, I asked Tom for some advice on how to regain and build confidence during times of challenge and stress. He replied, “Cindy, an old British proverb says, Don’t bolt the door with a boiled carrot. Some people try to regain confidence just through positive self-talk and inner cheer leading. As important as these can be, we human beings need to know we have the deepest basis for confidence, which is the relevant competence. Be a story teller! Help people to understand how their past has prepared them for the challenges they face. But remind them that the past can’t prove we’ll be successful in the future. It’s up to us to run ahead of the evidence and extend it to the new!”

As event producers, we play a key role in helping our clients tell their stories by staging the optimum environment and methods to deliver their messages. Simply pitching a team building exercise or other positive self-talk without true connection to your company’s vision and values would be a waste of time and an insult to your audience.

I would like to salute the Washington Speaker’s Bureau for their fantastic summer lecture series and special thanks to Tom Morris for sharing wisdom of the ages.

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M.F.K. Fisher’s How to Cook a Wolf spoke to a nation at war and in the throes of rationing during WW II: a time when many felt the proverbial wolf at the door. But its central message, extolling the virtues of simplicity, still resonates today. “Since we must eat to live,” Fisher wrote in a postscript to the revised edition, “We might as well do it with both grace and gusto.”

I have long believed in the virtue of the family table and the power of food to transform. Beautiful food served with grace and eaten with gusto carries the ability to bridge diverse cultures. When Americans return from travel to Italy or France they will often remark on a leisurely lunch they experienced in which conversation (rather than time) remained king. I do hope the movement toward sustainability, slow food, and simplicity bring this tradition back to our culture.

On a higher note, I often imagine what table and environment might be set to help foster peace in the Middle East. I invite you to share your thoughts here with me and let’s send them along to the likes of Thomas Keller, Alain Ducasse, Matsuhita Nobu, Alice Waters, or the spikey-haired “diner” guy on the Food Network.

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